Friday, April 3, 2015

Step 8 Devotional - Overcoming Loneliness

BIBLE READING: Ecclesiastes 4:9-12

We made lists of all persons we had harmed and became willing to make amends to them all.

Loneliness and isolation go along with the guilt and shame we feel about who we are or what we have done. We may feel so cut off from others that we feel lonely even when we are around other people. Guilt, fear of being hurt, and self-hatred can make us unable to believe in the love others have for us. We can feel all alone in the struggle even when there are people beside us who want to help. Being willing to accept their love is part of the preparation for making amends.

Wise King Solomon observed: “Two people are better off than one, for they can help each other succeed. If one person falls, the other can reach out and help. But someone who falls alone is in real trouble. Likewise, two people lying close together can keep each other warm. But how can one be warm alone? A person standing alone can be attacked and defeated, but two can stand back-to-back and conquer. Three are even better, for a triple-braided cord is not easily broken” (Ecclesiastes 4:9-12).

Loneliness can break us and defeat us in the recovery process. When we prepare to make amends, we also need to prepare our heart to accept whatever love, support, or friendship is offered in return. These supportive relationships, along with God’s supporting hand, will strengthen our life considerably. With our friends and God joining with us to form a “triple-braided cord,” we will not be easily broken or turned from the path to recovery.”

Excerpt From: Tyndale House Publishers. “The Life Recovery Bible NLT.



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